{"id":3339,"date":"2012-02-18T17:06:02","date_gmt":"2012-02-18T17:06:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/justice-for-the-word-friend\/"},"modified":"2012-02-18T17:06:02","modified_gmt":"2012-02-18T17:06:02","slug":"justice-for-the-word-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/justice-for-the-word-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"Justice for the word FRIEND"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" alignleft size-full wp-image-7216\" style=\"margin: 5px; float: left;\" alt=\"Vio_-_Alcatraz_San_Fran3\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Vio_-_Alcatraz_San_Fran3.jpg?resize=139%2C195\" width=\"139\" height=\"195\" \/>Mr. Mark Zuckerberg,<br \/>Vreau sa v\u0103 aduc la cuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103 faptul ca eu am o problem\u0103 vis-a-vis de configura\u021bia Facebook-ului \u0219i a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 \u0219tiu de ce nu exist\u0103 \u0219i alte op\u021biuni pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 cea de \u201efriends&#8221;.     <\/p>\n<p>De ce nu exist\u0103 op\u021biunile: \u201e cuno\u0219tinte&#8221; \u0219i \u201econtacte&#8221;?<br \/>Datorit\u0103 acestei singuri op\u021biuni, friends, se d\u0103 o conota\u021bie distorsionat\u0103 \u0219i total departe de adev\u0103r cuv\u00e2ntului prieten, f\u0103c\u00e2ndu-se o mare injusti\u0163ie acestui minunat cuv\u0103nt \u2013 friend.<br \/>PRIETEN, -,prieteni, -e, s. m. \u0219i f. Persoan\u0103 de care cineva este legat printr-o afec\u021biune deosebit\u0103, bazat\u0103 pe \u00eencredere \u0219i stim\u0103 reciproc\u0103, pe idei sau principii comune; amic. ( conform DEX-ului).<br \/>Cum este posibil ca mul\u021bi utilizatori \u0219i consumatori de FB s\u0103 aib\u0103 mii de prieteni?<br \/>Eu stau, cuget,&nbsp; \u0219i \u00eei&nbsp; \u00eentreb pe ace\u0219ti colec\u021bionari de \u201efriends&#8221;, \u00een nedumerirea mea absolut\u0103: Cu c\u00e2\u021bi dintre ei v-a\u021bi&nbsp; \u00eent\u00e2lnit? Cu c\u00e2\u021bi dintre ei a\u021bi schimbat o vorb\u0103 la telefon? Pe c\u00e2\u021bi dintre ei i-a\u021bi ajuta dac\u0103 ar avea nevoie? C\u00e2\u021bi v-ar s\u0103ri \u00een ajutor dac\u0103 a\u021bi avea nevoie?<br \/>Cuv\u00e2ntul prieten este luat \u00een batjocur\u0103 pe FB; \u00een fapt, pe FB, prieten (\u00een multe cazuri), \u00eenseamn\u0103 un biet ID colec\u021bionat printr-o cerere sau printr-un accept. P\u0103i dragi feisbuchi\u0219ti, mai bine v-a\u021bi apuca de colec\u021bionat timbre, scoici sau antichit\u0103\u021bi dec\u00e2t id-uri f\u0103r\u0103 nicio semnifica\u021bie. M\u0103car ave\u021bi ceva tangibil \u0219i care poate fi valorificat, tranzac\u021bionat sau pur \u0219i simplu p\u0103strat pentru distrac\u021bia voastr\u0103.<br \/>Unii, datorit\u0103 egoului care d\u0103 pe afar\u0103, adun\u0103 \u00een ne\u0219tire, id-uri pe FB, crez\u00e2nd c\u0103 a\u0219a sunt mai cool \u0219i mai populari.<br \/>Eu, unul, nu m\u0103 \u00eenrolez \u00een acest tren al prieteniei \u0219i al colec\u021bionarilor de id-uri \u0219i propun c\u0103 FB-ul s\u0103 nu mai denatureze acest cuv\u00e2nt&nbsp; sacru- friend. De aceea propun c\u0103 pe&nbsp; l\u00e2ng\u0103 op\u021biunile \u201emesaje&#8221;, \u201e prieteni&#8221; \u0219i \u201enotificari&#8221; s\u0103 se mai adauge dou\u0103 op\u021biuni: &#8220;cuno\u0219tin\u021be&#8221; \u0219i \u201econtacte&#8221;; astfel, putem selec\u021biona&nbsp; corecta op\u021biunea \u00een func\u021bie de rela\u021bia cu care&nbsp; o avem cu userul respectiv. A\u0219adar, c\u00e2nd vom&nbsp; accesa c\u0103su\u021ba friend, vom putea posta mesaje mai personale, care se pot adresa doar adev\u0103ra\u021bilor prieteni.<br \/>Exist\u0103 o distan\u021b\u0103 de mii de kilometri \u00eentre un prieten adev\u0103rat \u0219i un prieten de Facebook. \u00cen Facebook termenul de prieten este \u00een fapt&#8230; un \u201econtact&#8221;. Mul\u021bi \u0219i-au f\u0103cut un titlu de glorie \u00een lumea virtual\u0103 \u0219i se bat cu c\u0103r\u0103mida \u00een piept c\u0103 au mii de prieteni!<br \/>Really?<br \/>Ladies and gents, s\u0103 nu confund\u0103m un prieten cu o cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103, coleg sau cu un tovar\u0103\u0219. Majoritatea a\u0219a-zi\u0219ilor friends, pe FB, sunt \u00een fapt ni\u0219te banale contacte.<br \/>Oare c\u00e2\u021bi dintre ace\u0219ti mii de friends cu care se l\u0103ud\u0103 unii, s-ar trezi la ora unu noaptea \u0219i ar veni la tine acas\u0103 dac\u0103 \u021bi-ar fi r\u0103u sau dac\u0103 ai trece printr-o criz\u0103 emo\u021binonal\u0103 major\u0103?<br \/>The answer my friend is &#8230;..\u0219i aici pute\u021bi completa voi spa\u021biile de suspensie.<br \/>Mark Zuckerman, prin designul s\u0103u simplu, insidios \u0219i apetisant, a creat o comunitate virtual\u0103 de peste 800 milioane de useri,&nbsp; care cred&nbsp; c\u0103,&nbsp; dac\u0103 dau accept sau cerere la butona\u0219ul cu \u201efriends&#8221;, automat au c\u00e2\u0219tigat noi prieteni. Wrong!<br \/>Au colec\u021bionat id-uri \u0219i noi contacte cu care probabil nu se vor vedea niciodat\u0103 \u0219i nu vor vorbi nici m\u0103car la telefon.<br \/>So, please Mr. Zuckerman, no more abuse for the word FRIEND!&nbsp; Lets have justice for the word FRIEND! Lets have \u201e contacts&#8221; and \u201eacquintances&#8221; as other options.<br \/>Thank you,<br \/>Yours,<br \/>FB user<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mr. Mark Zuckerberg,Vreau sa v\u0103 aduc la cuno\u015ftin\u0163\u0103 faptul ca eu am o problem\u0103 vis-a-vis de configura\u021bia Facebook-ului \u0219i a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 \u0219tiu de ce nu exist\u0103 \u0219i alte op\u021biuni pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 cea de \u201efriends&#8221;. De ce nu exist\u0103 op\u021biunile: \u201e cuno\u0219tinte&#8221; \u0219i \u201econtacte&#8221;?Datorit\u0103 acestei singuri op\u021biuni, friends, se d\u0103 o conota\u021bie distorsionat\u0103 \u0219i total [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6308,"featured_media":7216,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3339","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-c10-editorial"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/Vio_-_Alcatraz_San_Fran3.jpg?fit=139%2C195&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3339","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6308"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3339"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3339\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7216"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3339"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3339"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.gandaculdecolorado.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3339"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}